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Here are Rules to help you be light and breezy in your e-mails: It all sounds good on paper, but you cannot write “soul mate” and think you will get one that way.A soul mate is someone who responds to your ad, doesn’t give up e-mailing you, tries to get your number to get a date with you and is a loving and fun companion. So beyond looking desperate, it is really a waste of time to write down “waiting for my soul mate” or anything like it.We are wives, mothers, co-authors, dating coaches, and have been best friends for the last 30 years.We came up with the idea for a self-help dating book called The Rules after many, many dinners with single girlfriends at the now-defunct Sung Chu Mein, a Chinese restaurant on the Upper East Side in New York City—it was sort of like Sex and the City, but before Sex and the City! The women who wrote the seminal — some say retrograde — 1995 dating guide “The Rules” have updated their book for the 21st century, but haven’t changed the main rule for women: Play hard to get.
So over fried tofu and mixed vegetables, we each brought our dating problems to the table.
Unfortunately, you cannot attract this by writing the word down any more than you can attract wealth by writing down the word “money.” Be patient.
Others noted that Fein was an accountant and Schneider a freelance journalist without professional qualification in the subject matter.
You need to force yourself to refrain from saying anything too intense or negative that could scare a man away.
Unfortunately, no matter what your heart says, you must hold back a bit for your own good.
Fein married and divorced, and has recently remarried. The authors admitted they were not professionals in an appearance on NBC's The Today Show.